What if I like both Domination and submission?

	I was told once that switching is a "game" and people who do so are "players" and don't respect BDSM as a lifestyle. I don't see myself as player, I honor BDSM as a lifestyle with all it's rules and chores laid upon. I started switching when I was a child. At this time I certainly wasn't aware of the fact what I do, but now thinking back on my childhood, I see it more clearly. I liked to dominate others, I told them what and how to do, sure in my knowledge that I do the right thing. On the other side, when there was a person whom I would now, based on my knowledge about BDSM, define as a Dominant ordered me something I followed the orders.
I am involved in this lifestyle since June 96 and I don't claim to be a experienced Domme nor a sub. My knowledge is based upon online experiences and real life experiences from both sides and I certainly grew in both - my Domination and my submission. All things I do I do from the base of my heart, with my body, my heart and my soul. No matter if I dom a sub and try to help them growing in their submission - be the guiding light in their life - or if I am the sub myself, eager to please a Domme. My point of view seeing things from both sides - the Dominant and the submissive one, sometimes makes it easier for me to make a decision or give somebody advice. For some people it might be "non - understandable" that I can't decide whether being Dominant or submissive - for those I take bisexuality as an example. It's well known that bisexual people love both genders - male and female - would they be able to decide for one of it, they would be straight or homosexual. As a matter of fact they can't decide - it's in their genes. I maintain that my switching is the same if I could decide, I would do so - but I can't, so I strive to do my very best in both - My Domination and my submission.

I was told once that switching is a "game" and people who do so are "players" and don't respect BDSM as a lifestyle. I don't see myself as player, I honor BDSM as a lifestyle with all it's rules and chores laid upon.

I started switching when I was a child. At this time I certainly wasn't aware of the fact what I do, but now thinking back on my childhood, I see it more clearly. I liked to dominate others, I told them what and how to do, sure in my knowledge that I do the right thing. On the other side, when there was a person whom I would now, based on my knowledge about BDSM, define as a Dominant ordered me something I followed the orders.

I am involved in this lifestyle since June 96 and I don't claim to be a experienced Domme nor a sub. My knowledge is based upon online experiences and real life experiences from both sides and I certainly grew in both - my Domination and my submission.

All things I do I do from the base of my heart, with my body, my heart and my soul. No matter if I dom a sub and try to help them growing in their submission - be the guiding light in their life - or if I am the sub myself, eager to please a Domme. My point of view seeing things from both sides - the Dominant and the submissive one, sometimes makes it easier for me to make a decision or give somebody advice.

For some people it might be "non - understandable" that I can't decide whether being Dominant or submissive - for those I take bisexuality as an example. It's well known that bisexual people love both genders - male and female - would they be able to decide for one of it, they would be straight or homosexual. As a matter of fact they can't decide - it's in their genes. I maintain that my switching is the same if I could decide, I would do so - but I can't, so I strive to do my very best in both - My Domination and my submission.